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Heterosexual women of a progressive bent often say they want equal partnerships with men. But dating is a different story entirely.

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The women I interviewed for a research project and book expected men to ask for, plan, and pay for dates; initiate sex; confirm the exclusivity of a relationship; and propose marriage. After setting all of those precedents, these women then wanted a marriage in which they shared the financial responsibilities, housework, and child care relatively equally.

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Almost none of my interviewees virtual date Tallahassee these dating practices as a threat to their feminist credentials or to their desire for egalitarian marriages. But they were wrong.

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I was aware of the research that showed greater gains in gender equality at work than at local milf Danbury. Curious to explore some of the reasons behind these s, I spent the past several years talking with people about their dating lives and what they wanted from their marriages and partnerships. This was not a cross section of America, for certain, but I did expect to hear progressive views.

Most wanted equal partnerships where they could share both financial and family responsibilities.

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Read: What I learned about equal-partnerships by studying dual-income couples. Once these women were married, it was difficult to right the ship, so to speak. The same gender stereotypes that they adopted while dating played out in their long-term partnerships.

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Three-quarters of Millennials in America support gender equality at work and home and meet up Hollywood FL that the ideal marriage is an equitable one. Consequently, I expected the young women I interviewed to epitomize feminist liberation. Yet, when they thought of equality among men and women, they focused more on professional opportunities than interpersonal dynamics.

Americans with a college education now Summit date ideas married in their early 30s on average, as young adults put their love life on hold while they invest in their education and establish a career. Given the ificant time, money, and effort they put into building this career, the women I spoke with expected to partner with people who would support their ambitious professional goals.

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The men said they desired and respected these independent, high-achieving women and actually saw them as more compatible partners as a result. And yet in a throwback to an earlier era, many women I spoke with enacted strict dating rules.

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On dates, the women talked about acting demure, and allowing men to do more of the talking. Women, they said, were more attractive to men when they appeared unattainable, so women preferred for the men to follow up after a date. Not all of the heterosexual women I spoke with felt strongly about these dating rules.

It would just be ridiculous if they were on a bended knee offering me a ring. While some liked paying for dates, feeling that the gesture was a nice way to show they cared, others were more resistant. That goes right in line with my theory of the person I consider my equal.

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But as the relationship progressed, the men I spoke with held persistent double standards. They expected women to walk a fine line between enough and too much sexual experience.

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Men also wanted to be taller, stronger, and more masculine than their partners. And many of the men expected women to take their last names after marriage.

When men and women endorsed these traditional dating Flint breakers for women roles early in a relationship, undoing those views in marriage was difficult.

The married men I interviewed often left caregiving and housework to the women, while the husbands considered themselves breadwinners and decision makers. This behavior fell in line with national trends.

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As American time-use surveys show, women still do about twice as much unpaid labor in the home as men. Like for me to be out like this on this interview, I had to make sure there was dinner stuff for him. They wanted no part of the dating scripts they saw as connected to gender inequality.

Read: The five years that changed dating. Because many LGBTQ relationships do not rely on well-established ideologies, norms are often considered, questioned, and my Hawaii dating rejected, with the aim of making space for egalitarian practices instead.

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In the process, many of the couples I spoke with incorporated the elements they felt were important to a successful relationship, emphasizing constant communication, evaluation, and negotiation. The goal was greater individuality and equality, and they actively worked to balance their own Midland TX dating a white man with the needs of their partners.

Just as noteworthy, the LGBTQ interviewees set up the expectations of equality from the outset of dating, not after it. This approach shifted their understanding of what was possible for intimate relationships, and they, for the most part, had more equal, long-term relationships as a result.

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